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London's swinging scene, by the numbers

London members spread right across the capital — Shoreditch, Brixton, Clapham, Hackney and Croydon are all well represented. Here's what our London membership actually looks like.

Average age

39

Across every profile listed in London

Who's here
Female37%
Male42%
Couples21%
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Profiles with at least one photo uploaded

Profiles listed

42

20 female · 13 male · 9 couples

Most-listed interests
MMF40%
Threesomes38%
Swinging28%
Discreet meets26%
Bondage21%
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Shoreditch Brixton Clapham Hackney Islington Camden Peckham Croydon
Meet our members

Who's active across London

From Hackney couples exploring their first threesome to Clapham locals who've been part of the scene for years — a sample of verified profiles below, free to browse once you're signed in.

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Female member

Emma

49
Shoreditch

Curious about bondage that stays playful. Ties, a blindfold, then normal tea after. No creeps. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Dressing upSpankingKinky gamesDiscreet meets
Male member

londM1

25
Shoreditch

Since I'm only here for the weekend just looking for hook ups. Come to my hotel room. Can do hotels.

Kinky games
Couple member

manchestercouple61

46 & 48
Shoreditch

Busy, family, this stays low key. Another couple for the odd night. No leaky group chats.

SwingingDiscreet meetsThreesomes
Female member

mira.shift

36
Brixton

I want my hair pulled and my name used. Soft in the kitchen, filthy in the hallway. Local only. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Flirting
Male member

experienced10

48
Brixton

I want to bury my face between her legs while he uses her mouth. Only if you both want that on paper first. Can do hotels.

MFF
Female member

roz

46
Clapham

Open to a regular FWB who likes swinging nights as well. I don't need a label. I need follow through. Can do hotels.

Flirting
Couple member

Devoncouple

32 & 33
Brixton

Not unicorn hunting in the rude way. We move slow, we share photos after a real chat, we don't pester. Based near Brixton.

Kinky gamesThreesomesDressing upDiscreet meets
Female member

mae.kat

52
Hackney

BUSY WEEK. WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN KEEP UP. IF UR FUN AND CLEAN SAY HI Can do hotels. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Kinky games
Male member

faith89

49
Clapham

Open relationship, she knows. I am not sneaking. If that bothers you skip me. Weeknights easier than weekends.

ThreesomesHookupsMFFFlirting
Female member

emma12

33
Islington

Nights and weekends I'm alive. Days I'm dead. Last minute Saturday yes works. Constant messaging does not. Weeknights easier than weekends.

SwingingDiscreet meetsDatingFlirting
Couple member

afterdark96

45 & 51
Clapham

Kids old enough that we get weekends back. Dressing up, spanking, swapping if it feels right. London only unless we already click.

Swinging
Male member

ALECMACCA

28
Hackney

Divorced, kids every second week. I don't advertise this. Respect that. Slower first meets, filthier later ones.

HookupsMMFBondageDressing up
Female member

kat

40
Camden

Slapping my cheeks, and I'll slap yours harder………..

Hookups
Female member

londM2

55
Peckham

I want my arse spanked until I can't sit at work the next day, then I want to be bent over and used. Aftercare is not optional. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Sub/DomDiscreet meets
Male member

forbidden21

31
Islington

yeah nah not sure what to write. work nearby. looking for fun I guess

MFFChatSee where it goes
Couple member

BOTHROOMESSEXCOU

44 & 42
Hackney

Full swap with the right couple. Same room. No disappearing into another flat. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Kinky gamesSwingingDiscreet meets
Female member

becs9

33
Greenwich

Shift worker. When I clock off I want someone who will eat me out like they mean it and not ask to stay the week.

Hookups
Male member

nick_spare

38
Camden

New in town for work blocks. Discreet, tested, leave when we're done.

Flirting
Female member

londM5

47
Croydon

If you can't say what you want sexually don't write. I like oral, I like being watched, I like leaving before breakfast. Can do hotels.

MFFThreesomesFlirting
Couple member

thirdchair22

34 & 32
Islington

WANT A COUPLE FOR SATURDAY NIGHTS. SOFT SWAP TO START. LOCAL TO THIS AREA Can do hotels.

SwingingMMF
Female member

peta_mae

42
Ealing

Married, open on my side with his knowledge. Hotel or my place when he's away. Keep names off socials. Based near Ealing.

Bondage
Male member

laidback60

62
Peckham

I'm quite easygoing, open minded and always keen to see where things go. I love a good conversation, spontaneous plans, having a good laugh. Can do hotels. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

HookupsMFFDressing up
Female member

londJ2

24
Walthamstow

Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Casual funSwingingFlirting
Male member

larry

37
Greenwich

I'm just a simple man with needs, that maybe you can satisfy London only unless we already click.

HookupsCasual funDiscreet meets
Female member

londF3

45
Tooting

NEW TO THIS. NERVOUS BUT CURIOUS. BE NORMAL PLEASE London only unless we already click.

MMF
Couple member

devoncouple57

60 & 58
Camden

COUPLE LOOKING FOR A THIRD. SHE IS BI HE IS STRAIGHT. BE RESPECTFUL

SwingingMMF
Female member

Mira

37
Dalston

Kids half the week. When I have a free night I don't want dinner theatre. I want to get out of my head. Be tested. Based near Dalston. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Sub/DomMFF
Male member

echo.laidback

24
Croydon

kinda shy in person till im not. looking for someone patient and filthy in equal measure

SwingingChatHookupsDiscreet meets
Female member

londJ1

50
Notting Hill

Work weeks are messy. Not after a boyfriend. Text midweek and actually show up. Drink first. Dry chat and I vanish. Based near Notting Hill.

See where it goesThreesomesChatFlirting
Couple member

manchestercouple

26 & 25
Peckham

She will suck you while I fuck her if the three of us get there. Until then it's drinks and vetting. Weeknights easier than weekends.

MFFDiscreet meetsMMF
Male member

nigel38

34
Ealing

Been swinging on and off for years. Prefer another couple our age. Chemistry over a wishlist. Based near Ealing.

SpankingMFF
Female member

devongirl_tamsin

55
Shoreditch

Sorry my spelling is rubbish I type fast. Looking for casul fun. Dont need heaps of people just one who shows up. Based near Shoreditch.

Casual funOpen to anythingMFFFWB
Female member

flick.late

48
Brixton

This box is awkward. Dress me up, take me out, then ruin the outfit. Must be able to laugh when plans go sideways. Based near Brixton.

Kinky games
Male member

Laidback

40
Walthamstow

Trades, early starts. Not looking to move in. A regular no-stress thing. I can host most weeknights after 7. Weeknights easier than weekends.

FWBSwinging
Couple member

housekeys68

28 & 26
Greenwich

House in the suburbs, blinds that actually close. Looking for ongoing, not a one-off circus.

SwingingMFF
Female member

bracken90

46
Clapham

Separated last year. Not rushing anything official. Still like being wanted. Flirting is half the point. Weeknights easier than weekends.

MMF
Male member

kentlad

48
Tooting

INTO SPANKING AND A PROPER FUCK AFTER. DONT BE WEIRD IN THE FIRST MESSAGE Weeknights easier than weekends.

FlirtingHookups
Female member

indya1

48
Hackney

short version: horny, employed, not crazy. long version ask Based near Hackney.

MMF
Couple member

bothroom.east

27 & 29
Croydon

MFF or another couple. No single guys who ignore the rules in the second paragraph.

Discreet meets
Female member

Bracken

32
Islington

I'm 32 years old, living in the Greater London region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 24 and 49. Can do hotels. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

SwingingSpankingBondageHookups
Male member

tom

34
Dalston

Going out good foood and good laugh and you only live once

BondageSub/DomFWBMMF
Female member

viki_spare

28
Camden

I go quiet when I'm horny and then I overshare. Looking for someone who can handle both. Can do hotels.

Open to anythingDating

London swingers: who's actually on here

London is big enough that no single borough covers it — the profiles above pull from Shoreditch, Brixton, Clapham, Hackney, Islington, Camden, Peckham and Croydon, and they're a working sample, not the whole membership, just enough to show you it's real. MMF leads the interest list at 40%, with threesomes at 38%, swinging at 28% and discreet meets at 26%.

Where London swingers actually connect

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