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Birmingham, right now

Birmingham's swinging scene, by the numbers

Birmingham members spread out to Solihull, Wolverhampton, Coventry and Sutton Coldfield around the city. Here's what our Birmingham membership actually looks like.

Average age

40

Across every profile listed in Birmingham

Who's here
Female35%
Male44%
Couples21%
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With photos

Profiles with at least one photo uploaded

Profiles listed

42

20 female · 13 male · 9 couples

Most-listed interests
Threesomes41%
Swinging33%
Discreet meets29%
MFF28%
Spanking20%
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Solihull Wolverhampton Coventry Moseley Harborne Sutton Coldfield
Meet our members

Who's active in and around Birmingham

From Moseley couples exploring their first threesome to Harborne locals who've been part of the scene for years — a sample of verified profiles below, free to browse once you've signed in.

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Female member

renee.kentgurl

23
Edgbaston

I want my hair pulled and my name used. Soft in the kitchen, filthy in the hallway. Local only. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

MMFSpankingSub/Dom
Male member

brumlad40

35
Edgbaston

WANNA MEET UP NOT TALK FOR 3 WEEKS. IM CLEAN. IF THE VIBE IS RIGHT SAY SO Can do hotels.

MMF
Couple member

LATEFERRYLANE

36 & 38
Edgbaston

Kids old enough that we get weekends back. Dressing up, spanking, swapping if it feels right. Based near Edgbaston.

ThreesomesSwinging
Female member

CLEORAIN

53
Moseley

Shift worker. When I clock off I want someone who will eat me out like they mean it and not ask to stay the week. Birmingham only unless we already click.

FlirtingDatingHookupsMMF
Male member

essexlad5

59
Moseley

Divorced, kids every second week. I don't advertise this. Respect that. Slower first meets, filthier later ones. Weeknights easier than weekends.

MFFCasual funChat
Female member

cleo_shift

26
Kings Heath

Younger men welcome if you actually like women my age. Direct in messages. Don't waste the night. Based near Kings Heath.

MFFThreesomesOpen to anything
Couple member

essexcouple8

57 & 51
Moseley

Older couple, still at it. Woman who likes being the centre with both of us there. Partner always present. We can host. Birmingham only unless we already click.

Discreet meets
Female member

flick_key

48
Harborne

Yeah so I overshare and I get bored of apps pretending they're not hookup apps. Starting casual is easier. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Discreet meetsDressing up
Male member

birmC1

38
Kings Heath

Latex, anal, oral sex, shibari, bondage, slap, role, Based near Kings Heath.

HookupsMFFThreesomesFlirting
Female member

Indya

53
Selly Oak

Nights and weekends I'm alive. Days I'm dead. Last minute Saturday yes works. Constant messaging does not.

FWBHookupsFlirting
Couple member

kentcouple.pad

38 & 39
Kings Heath

COUPLE LOOKING FOR A THIRD. SHE IS BI HE IS STRAIGHT. BE RESPECTFUL

Swinging
Male member

liam73

48
Harborne

Gym, work, repeat. Something that doesn't come with homework. Flirty chat is fine. Planning a wedding is not. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Kinky gamesDressing upHookups
Female member

peta_shift

52
Digbeth

Have played with couples. Meet both of you first. No secret side chats. MFF is my preference. If he talks over her I'm out.

See where it goesThreesomes
Female member

waiata.den

48
Erdington

Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Discreet meetsDressing upFWB
Male member

seth_reece

53
Selly Oak

I'm just a simple man with needs, that maybe you can satisfy

Casual fun
Couple member

kentcouple_wehost

42 & 43
Harborne

New to swinging and a bit awkward. Want a discreet meet with another couple. Soft swap first. Based near Harborne.

Discreet meetsThreesomes
Female member

tori_pad

36
Sutton Coldfield

u up energy but with better hygiene. filthy texts then acting normal at work. if thats ur thing start talking Based near Sutton Coldfield.

HookupsDating
Male member

echo.den

33
Digbeth

Since I'm only here for the weekend just looking for hook ups. Come to my hotel room. Based near Digbeth.

See where it goesOpen to anythingChatThreesomes
Female member

KENTGURLSPARE

61
Handsworth

I go quiet when I'm horny and then I overshare. Looking for someone who can handle both. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Discreet meetsMMFDatingFWB
Couple member

DEVONCOUPLEWEST

54 & 59
Selly Oak

We like a third who can take a cock and still pay attention to her. Hotel works. Our place if we trust you. Can do hotels.

Dressing up
Female member

nancy.seygurl

43
Edgbaston

Slapping my cheeks, and I'll slap yours harder……….. Based near Edgbaston.

Discreet meets
Male member

seth_kentlad

48
Erdington

I'm quite easygoing, open minded and always keen to see where things go. I love a good conversation, spontaneous plans, having a good laugh. Based near Erdington. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

Swinging
Female member

cleo.ana

28
Moseley

Separated last year. Not rushing anything official. Still like being wanted. Flirting is half the point. Based near Moseley.

Flirting
Male member

seth.tom

33
Sutton Coldfield

New in town for work blocks. Discreet, tested, leave when we're done. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Hookups
Female member

ukmiss53

35
Kings Heath

Married, open on my side with his knowledge. Hotel or my place when he's away. Keep names off socials.

Casual funSwingingFWBChat
Couple member

essexcouple.oak

42 & 48
Digbeth

Not unicorn hunting in the rude way. We move slow, we share photos after a real chat, we don't pester.

MFF
Female member

londongirl.pippa

33
Harborne

I want my arse spanked until I can't sit at work the next day, then I want to be bent over and used. Aftercare is not optional. Can do hotels.

FWBDiscreet meets
Male member

experienced.larry

60
Handsworth

Shift worker. When I'm off I want company without a relationship label. Straight talk only.

ChatThreesomesHookups
Female member

indya

61
Selly Oak

Long marriage, recently opened. He knows I'm on here. I am hunting spark not a replacement. First meets public.

SwingingMFF
Couple member

housekeys.late

35 & 30
Erdington

She wants another woman. He stays involved. If you only want him, this is the wrong profile. Can do hotels.

Swinging
Male member

birmJ4

34
Edgbaston

Switch leaning Dom. Restraint, spanking, instructions that get followed. Not a full time master. I have a job. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

FWBDiscreet meetsBondageMFF
Female member

viki.nancy

37
Digbeth

Seeking a mature genuine and willing partner to explore with Weeknights easier than weekends.

Open to anythingChat
Female member

nancy21

43
Erdington

not great at bios. nights off are random. looking for fun not a lecture Can do hotels.

Discreet meetsSub/Dom
Male member

dez

24
Moseley

If you are a couple, write together. I ignore the husband-only accounts that treat her like a listing. Birmingham only unless we already click.

MFFCasual funHookupsSwinging
Couple member

softswap_kentcoupl

34 & 40
Sutton Coldfield

Married, together a long time. Looking for a woman to join us. Drinks first, no pressure the first night. He will be present. She leads the pace. Can do hotels.

SwingingThreesomes
Female member

EMMADEN

28
Sutton Coldfield

Sorry my spelling is rubbish I type fast. Looking for casul fun. Dont need heaps of people just one who shows up. Based near Sutton Coldfield.

Swinging
Male member

larry34

32
Kings Heath

I'm 32 years old, living in the West Midlands region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 23 and 49.

FWB
Female member

birmM5

38
Handsworth

Not interested in being anyone's secret if you're going to panic after. If you can host and keep it discreet, talk to me. Birmingham only unless we already click.

MFF
Couple member

afterdark90

30 & 31
Handsworth

We have played once and want it again. Better communication this time. She writes most of the messages. Birmingham only unless we already click.

Dressing upMFFThreesomesKinky games
Female member

otter_emma

38
Edgbaston

If you can't say what you want sexually don't write. I like oral, I like being watched, I like leaving before breakfast. Can do hotels.

SpankingFWBBondageMFF
Male member

birmC9

30
Harborne

yeah nah not sure what to write. work nearby. looking for fun I guess Birmingham only unless we already click. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

Discreet meetsDressing upMMF
Female member

KENTGURLSOUTH

25
Moseley

Older, blunt, not here to babysit egos. I know what I like in bed. Discretion is non negotiable because of work.

MMFThreesomes

Swinger club Birmingham: who's actually on here

Threesomes lead the interest list for Birmingham members at 41%, with swinging at 33%, discreet meets at 29% and MFF at 28%. Whether swinger club birmingham, swingers birmingham or dogging birmingham is what brought you here, the profiles above are a working sample of who's actually active — not the whole membership, just enough to show you it's real. Sign in and the rest of Birmingham's membership opens up too.

Where Birmingham connections actually happen

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