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Kent's swinging scene, by the numbers

Kent members cover the whole county — Maidstone, Medway, Canterbury, Sittingbourne and Ashford are all represented. Here's what our Kent membership actually looks like.

Average age

38

Across every profile listed in Kent

Who's here
Female37%
Male42%
Couples21%
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Profiles with at least one photo uploaded

Profiles listed

42

20 female · 13 male · 9 couples

Most-listed interests
Threesomes39%
MMF33%
MFF31%
Swinging26%
Sub/Dom23%
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Maidstone Medway Canterbury Sittingbourne Gravesend Ashford Tunbridge Wells
Meet our members

Who's active across Kent

From Maidstone couples after their first threesome to Canterbury locals who've been part of the scene for years — a sample of verified profiles below, free to browse once you're signed in.

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Female member

essexgurl44

36
Medway

I'm fun, fit, flirty and I love to F. Love meeting like minded types who are keen to play up. Based near Medway. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

HookupsBondageSpanking
Male member

nigel.nick

29
Maidstone

i dont write essays. if ur nearby and keen say something interesting Based near Maidstone.

MMFSpanking
Couple member

kentK6

33 & 33
Maidstone

looking for a girl to mess around with both of us. must be ok that we leave together after Kent only unless we already click.

MMF
Female member

flick7

32
Canterbury

u up energy but with better hygiene. filthy texts then acting normal at work. if thats ur thing start talking Weeknights easier than weekends.

FWBCasual funDiscreet meets
Male member

craig

57
Medway

Open to try go into my kink side more don't really care

HookupsMFFSwinging
Female member

indya3

40
Canterbury

Long marriage, recently opened. He knows I'm on here. I am hunting spark not a replacement. First meets public.

See where it goes
Couple member

Manchestercouple

39 & 38
Medway

We like a third who can take a cock and still pay attention to her. Hotel works. Our place if we trust you. Weeknights easier than weekends.

SwingingMFFMMFThreesomes
Female member

tori_londongirl

41
Canterbury

Yeah so I overshare and I get bored of apps pretending they're not hookup apps. Starting casual is easier. Kent only unless we already click.

Kinky games
Male member

craig81

29
Canterbury

Older guy, still curious. Prefer women who know their own minds. A bit rusty online. Not here to waste time.

Open to anythingDatingFWB
Female member

ROZSASHA

62
Medway

Have played with couples. Meet both of you first. No secret side chats. MFF is my preference. If he talks over her I'm out. Based near Medway.

MFFSwingingFWBThreesomes
Couple member

softswap

38 & 34
Maidstone

He likes watching her get fucked. She likes being shown off. We talk limits before anyone gets naked.

Swinging
Male member

kentK4

26
Sittingbourne

WANNA MEET UP NOT TALK FOR 3 WEEKS. IM CLEAN. IF THE VIBE IS RIGHT SAY SO Can do hotels. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

MFFThreesomesSpanking
Female member

cleo45

26
Sittingbourne

Seeking a mature genuine and willing partner to explore with

MMFFlirting
Female member

Devongirl

30
Gravesend

Work weeks are messy. Not after a boyfriend. Text midweek and actually show up. Drink first. Dry chat and I vanish.

Kinky gamesSwingingSub/Dom
Male member

kieran.wait

33
Ashford

Looking for a woman who likes sucking cock without making it a whole personality. Then we can see about more.

Chat
Couple member

BOTHROOMLATE

34 & 39
Gravesend

we dont really know how to sell ourselves. normal couple who got curious. patient people only Kent only unless we already click.

MFFKinky games
Female member

londongirl.ukmiss

32
Canterbury

short version: horny, employed, not crazy. long version ask Can do hotels.

DatingFlirtingSee where it goes
Male member

Nigel

40
Ashford

I want to bury my face between her legs while he uses her mouth. Only if you both want that on paper first. Kent only unless we already click.

Open to anything
Female member

Becs

34
Ashford

not great at bios. nights off are random. looking for fun not a lecture Based near Ashford.

MFFSee where it goes
Couple member

afterdark58

41 & 42
Medway

New to swinging and a bit awkward. Want a discreet meet with another couple. Soft swap first.

Swinging
Female member

otter.emma

38
Sittingbourne

I go quiet when I'm horny and then I overshare. Looking for someone who can handle both. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

MFFHookupsMMF
Male member

kentJ3

43
Maidstone

Shift worker. When I'm off I want company without a relationship label. Straight talk only.

SwingingSub/DomHookups
Female member

pippa

44
Ashford

If you can't say what you want sexually don't write. I like oral, I like being watched, I like leaving before breakfast.

HookupsChatCasual funFWB
Male member

liam93

34
Canterbury

Gym, work, repeat. Something that doesn't come with homework. Flirty chat is fine. Planning a wedding is not. Based near Canterbury.

HookupsDiscreet meetsChat
Female member

mae

60
Maidstone

Want a couple who already know how to share. I like being in the middle, her mouth on me while he fucks me. Slow first drink though.

Open to anything
Couple member

kentcouple79

56 & 52
Gravesend

WANT A COUPLE FOR SATURDAY NIGHTS. SOFT SWAP TO START. LOCAL TO THIS AREA Weeknights easier than weekends.

ThreesomesMFFMMFDiscreet meets
Female member

emma_lils

25
Ashford

Travel a lot. I vanish two weeks then I'm free on a Tuesday. Hate clingy. Weeknights easier than weekends. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

HookupsDressing upBondageKinky games
Male member

echo61

49
Ashford

Since I'm only here for the weekend just looking for hook ups. Come to my hotel room. Based near Ashford.

Discreet meetsMMFMFF
Female member

otter9

48
Canterbury

I like a man who can take instruction. Control, pacing, being used properly. If you message hey with nothing else I will not reply.

Open to anythingMMF
Couple member

bothroom.east

44 & 47
Tunbridge Wells

Full swap with the right couple. Same room. No disappearing into another flat.

Kinky gamesThreesomes
Male member

Seth

39
Ashford

Can host. Clean sheets, blinds down, no photos of my place on your phone. That's the deal. Based near Ashford. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

SpankingDiscreet meetsMFFBondage
Female member

viki.late

23
Sittingbourne

I want my arse spanked until I can't sit at work the next day, then I want to be bent over and used. Aftercare is not optional. Kent only unless we already click.

Open to anythingDiscreet meetsMFFCasual fun
Female member

cleo_cleo

48
Gravesend

Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see.

Hookups
Male member

macca.room

37
Ashford

INTO SPANKING AND A PROPER FUCK AFTER. DONT BE WEIRD IN THE FIRST MESSAGE Based near Ashford.

MFFSee where it goesFWB
Couple member

Softswap

34 & 39
Medway

Looking for a man to join. MMF. She wants to watch and take part. First meet clothed and public. Can do hotels.

Swinging
Female member

renee

36
Sittingbourne

Open to a regular FWB who likes swinging nights as well. I don't need a label. I need follow through.

Discreet meets
Male member

SPONTANEOUSPAD

37
Sittingbourne

Been swinging on and off for years. Prefer another couple our age. Chemistry over a wishlist. Kent only unless we already click.

FlirtingDiscreet meetsFWB
Female member

waiata83

42
Tunbridge Wells

Separated last year. Not rushing anything official. Still like being wanted. Flirting is half the point. Weeknights easier than weekends.

FWBOpen to anything
Couple member

kentM5

48 & 49
Sevenoaks

House in the suburbs, blinds that actually close. Looking for ongoing, not a one-off circus.

Threesomes
Female member

kentC3

39
Canterbury

Curious about bondage that stays playful. Ties, a blindfold, then normal tea after. No creeps. Kent only unless we already click. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Dressing up
Male member

kentF9

24
Medway

New in town for work blocks. Discreet, tested, leave when we're done. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

Sub/DomDressing upKinky games
Female member

Peta

33
Sevenoaks

Sorry my spelling is rubbish I type fast. Looking for casul fun. Dont need heaps of people just one who shows up. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Casual funDatingFlirting

Swinging clubs Kent: who's actually on here

Kent is covered as one page here rather than split by town, since the same members move between Maidstone, Medway, Canterbury, Sittingbourne, Gravesend and Ashford. Threesomes lead the interest list at 39%, with MMF at 33%, MFF at 31% and swinging at 26%. The profiles above are a working sample — not the whole membership, just enough to show you it's real.

Where Kent swingers actually meet

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