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Belfast, right now

Belfast's swinging scene, by the numbers

Belfast members stretch out to Lisburn, Bangor, Holywood and Carrickfergus around the lough. Here's what our Belfast membership actually looks like.

Average age

42

Across every profile listed in Belfast

Who's here
Female35%
Male43%
Couples22%
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With photos

Profiles with at least one photo uploaded

Profiles listed

42

20 female · 13 male · 9 couples

Most-listed interests
Threesomes39%
Swinging33%
Discreet meets32%
MFF25%
FWB23%
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Lisburn Bangor Holywood Carrickfergus Newtownards Carryduff
Meet our members

Who's active in and around Belfast

From Lisburn couples easing into their first threesome to Bangor locals who've been part of the scene for years — a sample of verified profiles below. Full details unlock once you're signed in, and it's free to look.

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Female member

kentgurl36

49
Lisburn Road

I want my hair pulled and my name used. Soft in the kitchen, filthy in the hallway. Local only. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

FWB
Male member

tom20

28
Lisburn Road

Gym, work, repeat. Something that doesn't come with homework. Flirty chat is fine. Planning a wedding is not. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

MFFKinky gamesDressing up
Couple member

belfK1

32 & 38
Lisburn Road

House in the suburbs, blinds that actually close. Looking for ongoing, not a one-off circus.

Dressing upDiscreet meetsThreesomesSwinging
Female member

pippa_devongirl

34
Ormeau

I go quiet when I'm horny and then I overshare. Looking for someone who can handle both.

DatingOpen to anythingSee where it goesThreesomes
Male member

PETEUKTOM

36
Ormeau

yeah nah not sure what to write. work nearby. looking for fun I guess Can do hotels.

Open to anything
Female member

otter_lane

30
Stranmillis

Want a couple who already know how to share. I like being in the middle, her mouth on me while he fucks me. Slow first drink though. Weeknights easier than weekends.

MFFSee where it goes
Couple member

essexcouple38

47 & 53
Ormeau

Open marriage, we have rules. No solo meets unless both agree. Prefer another couple around our age. Can do hotels.

ThreesomesSwingingMFFDiscreet meets
Female member

cleo

41
East Belfast

u up energy but with better hygiene. filthy texts then acting normal at work. if thats ur thing start talking Based near East Belfast. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

MFFDiscreet meetsHookupsSub/Dom
Male member

nick.shift

50
Stranmillis

Open to try go into my kink side more don't really care Weeknights easier than weekends.

FlirtingFWB
Female member

belfC1

54
West Belfast

BUSY WEEK. WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN KEEP UP. IF UR FUN AND CLEAN SAY HI Belfast only unless we already click.

SwingingChatMMFMFF
Couple member

manchestercouple.w

30 & 36
Stranmillis

We have played once and want it again. Better communication this time. She writes most of the messages.

Discreet meets
Male member

echo

28
East Belfast

Shift worker. When I'm off I want company without a relationship label. Straight talk only. Belfast only unless we already click.

FWBSub/DomDressing upMMF
Female member

sasha

30
North Belfast

Curious about bondage that stays playful. Ties, a blindfold, then normal tea after. No creeps. Belfast only unless we already click.

FWBCasual fun
Female member

kat

27
Holywood

short version: horny, employed, not crazy. long version ask Belfast only unless we already click.

MFFDressing upSub/DomDiscreet meets
Male member

blake.kieran

24
West Belfast

Switch leaning Dom. Restraint, spanking, instructions that get followed. Not a full time master. I have a job. Can do hotels.

MMFThreesomesSee where it goesDating
Couple member

kentcouple_den

43 & 47
East Belfast

WANT A COUPLE FOR SATURDAY NIGHTS. SOFT SWAP TO START. LOCAL TO THIS AREA Belfast only unless we already click.

SwingingThreesomesDiscreet meets
Female member

BRACKENDEN

35
Carryduff

This box is awkward. Dress me up, take me out, then ruin the outfit. Must be able to laugh when plans go sideways.

FWBMFF
Male member

echo19

31
North Belfast

Divorced, kids every second week. I don't advertise this. Respect that. Slower first meets, filthier later ones.

Discreet meetsDatingMMF
Female member

hana.pippa

23
Dunmurry

idk what to put lol. new here. just seeing what this even is

DatingMFFSwingingFWB
Couple member

kentcouple8

36 & 41
West Belfast

Kids old enough that we get weekends back. Dressing up, spanking, swapping if it feels right. Based near West Belfast.

MFF
Female member

bracken_devongirl

31
Lisburn Road

Younger men welcome if you actually like women my age. Direct in messages. Don't waste the night.

Kinky gamesBondage
Male member

belfF6

33
Holywood

I'm inexperienced and hoping that I'll be able to improve and empty my balls. Belfast only unless we already click.

MMFMFFSub/Dom
Female member

waiata.viki

30
Ormeau

Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see.

ThreesomesChat
Male member

alec99

32
Carryduff

Older guy, still curious. Prefer women who know their own minds. A bit rusty online. Not here to waste time.

Discreet meetsSwingingOpen to anything
Female member

lils4

25
Stranmillis

Work weeks are messy. Not after a boyfriend. Text midweek and actually show up. Drink first. Dry chat and I vanish.

Hookups
Couple member

belfF7

41 & 36
North Belfast

Married, together a long time. Looking for a woman to join us. Drinks first, no pressure the first night. He will be present. She leads the pace.

MMF
Female member

Indya

24
East Belfast

Kids half the week. When I have a free night I don't want dinner theatre. I want to get out of my head. Be tested.

Kinky gamesHookupsThreesomesDressing up
Male member

brumlad18

45
Dunmurry

Quiet in public. Different once the door is shut. If you need constant fire emojis I'm not your man. Based near Dunmurry.

MMFThreesomes
Female member

peta80

44
West Belfast

Travel a lot. I vanish two weeks then I'm free on a Tuesday. Hate clingy.

Discreet meetsMMF
Couple member

devoncouple4

36 & 40
Holywood

looking for a girl to mess around with both of us. must be ok that we leave together after Weeknights easier than weekends.

MFFDressing upThreesomesKinky games
Male member

Laidback

39
Lisburn Road

I want to bury my face between her legs while he uses her mouth. Only if you both want that on paper first. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

HookupsFWBThreesomes
Female member

ana_south

36
North Belfast

Yeah so I overshare and I get bored of apps pretending they're not hookup apps. Starting casual is easier. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Discreet meetsCasual fun
Female member

TAMSINHEAT

30
Holywood

If you can't say what you want sexually don't write. I like oral, I like being watched, I like leaving before breakfast. Weeknights easier than weekends. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

BondageSpanking
Male member

forbidden.blake

23
Ormeau

Trustworthy sincerity understanding of situations Can do hotels.

Open to anythingDiscreet meets
Couple member

kentcouple47

30 & 33
Carryduff

we dont really know how to sell ourselves. normal couple who got curious. patient people only

SwingingKinky gamesMMF
Female member

mira

32
Carryduff

Shift worker. When I clock off I want someone who will eat me out like they mean it and not ask to stay the week. Weeknights easier than weekends.

MMFSee where it goesHookupsDiscreet meets
Male member

brumlad_rik

24
Stranmillis

I'm 24, keen on catching up with you. I'm down for whatever.

FWBMFF
Female member

MIRAEMMA

28
Dunmurry

Have played with couples. Meet both of you first. No secret side chats. MFF is my preference. If he talks over her I'm out. Based near Dunmurry.

DatingCasual funThreesomes
Couple member

Wehost

56 & 59
Dunmurry

We like a third who can take a cock and still pay attention to her. Hotel works. Our place if we trust you. Belfast only unless we already click.

Discreet meetsSwingingMMF
Female member

mira.renee

29
Lisburn Road

not great at bios. nights off are random. looking for fun not a lecture Can do hotels. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

FWBSpankingSwingingMFF
Male member

Dez

39
East Belfast

I'm quite easygoing, open minded and always keen to see where things go. I love a good conversation, spontaneous plans, having a good laugh. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

Dressing upHookups
Female member

belfK4

37
Ormeau

NEW TO THIS. NERVOUS BUT CURIOUS. BE NORMAL PLEASE

Dating

Belfast swingers: who's actually behind these profiles

Threesomes lead the list of what Belfast members are into at 39%, with swinging close behind at 33%, discreet meets at 32% and MFF at 25%. If belfast sex, sex in belfast or belfast hookups is what brought you here, the profiles above are a working sample of who's actually active — not the whole membership, just enough to show you it's real. Sign in and the rest of Belfast's membership opens up too.

Where Belfast connections actually happen

Most Belfast members move a conversation from Swing Cities to a private house or a hotel once there's some trust built up, and plenty travel in from Lisburn, Newtownards and Carryduff rather than live right in the city centre. Dogging belfast shows up often enough in searches that it's worth a direct answer: outdoor meets carry real legal risk, so read our Dogging Rules & Etiquette guide before you go looking for one.

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